Chivalry is dead and feminism killed it.
Chivalry is an outdated, archaic social code built on the infantilazation of white women and the dehumanization and erasure of women of color.
Maybe worry less about emulating idealized notions of medieval knighthood ethics, and focus more on just being a polite person, yeah?
men that won’t let me open a door for them make me want to scream. like, i’m being kind, you don’t have to reinforce the fact that you think you’re better than me and believe i’m incapable of doing such things as opening a door for myself.